Ever wondered what are the biggest turn offs for girls? We have. Here are things that guarantee you don’t get a second date or, worse yet, make your relationship take a nose-dive. Take a look at what real woman consider to be their biggest pet peeves and deal-breakers when it comes to men and their behavior courtesy of a recent Reddit discussion.
When guys have those obnoxiously loud cars/truck and revs them up so the whole town can hear them. And you can tell they are purposely doing it.
AND TO TAKE IT FURTHER THEY STARE AT YOU.
When he treats retail workers/servers like crap. Being embarrassed in public is not a turn on. One guy I dated did this and just called it being “assertive”. I said take off the “ertive” and you’d be right.
Talking mad shit about the ex YOU chose. We all fuck up.
Taking responsibility for your behavior and the ability to learn from your mistakes is attractive.
Dismissing all my interests and ideas as stupid or not smart enough
Comparing me to other girls constantly. It’s seriously not what I signed up for, dude.
Complaining about trivial bullshit they can’t or won’t fix, and just generally being negative.
Slightly related but complaining about small, trivial mistakes other people make.
Trying to be suggestive or overly sexual way too soon. Trying to ask me what I like sexually when I’ve known you for 45 minutes or assuming I’d like all the things you’re explicitly stating that you’d do when it’s our second or third time meeting creates so much second hand embarrassment it makes me want to vomit.
I have something I call the Big Gay Man test. If you (a straight man) would be uncomfortable with a gay man who is much bigger and stronger than you saying something to you, don’t say it to a woman. This also applies to physical contact. Handshake? Good. Hand on your shoulder while standing a little close? Please don’t.
Not being able to take care of themselves and expecting you to mother them once things get serious. Really, just because I’m the woman doesn’t mean I should be the one responsible for keeping stuff clean, getting us to eat healthy and making basic appointments and reservations. I’m your girlfriend, not your caretaker.
Laziness and lack of ambition. If you see me in the middle of cleaning the house or cooking a meal you will surely partake of, please get off the couch and make yourself something to drink. Maybe even grab the broom and help out. Your efforts will be appreciated. And please do not ask me to plan, coordinate, and execute everything that goes on in our lives beyond watching Netflix. I am not your secretary and I am definitely not your mother.
Being constantly insecure about your penis size. Nobody cares about it as much as you do. Guaranteed.
Actually – being constantly insecure full stop.
Being overtly obsessed with sex as if it’s the only thing that matters in life and there is no other reason to spend time with women.
Being an adult man who gets into fist fights.
Unsolicited dick pictures.
With that said, there’s no shame in making a mistake, but there is in repeating it. If you didn’t already know that these are some of the biggest turn offs for girls, you might have your work cut out for you.