Porn video titles and descriptions can contain different sexual phrases and acronyms. That’s especially true when it comes to BDSM. Unfortunately, if you’re new to porn or haven’t been paying attention, you might be in the dark about what many of them mean. To help you, we will list and explain some of the most common sexual slang terms and abbreviations.
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Common Sexual Terms
MILF
The term MILF was made popular by the teenage comedy film American Pie (1999). It stands for “Mom I’d Like to Fuck” and refers to an attractive older woman that might or might not have kids. Interestingly, in porn, actresses most often fall into the teen or MILF pornstars category with little to no middle ground.
GILF
GILF, or “Grandma I’d Like to Fuck” is a natural evolution from the previous term. That is, if you’re into gray-haired and wrinkled chicks. GILF porn is quite prevalent and surprisingly popular, but it often involves some pretty hot pornstars by any standards. Anilos.com is an excellent place to start if you are into ripe old babes.
Cougar
A cougar or a puma is an older woman (MILF or GILF) interested in sexual relations with younger guys. You can also find lesbian cougars and bisexual ones that start threesomes with young or teen couples. You can find plenty of cougars on RealityKings.com site Moms Bang Teens.
CFNM
CFNM stands for “Clothed Female Nude Male.” This term or fetish is often paired up with female domination and teasing. Other times it’s just a group of CFNM babes jerking off a dude, fucking, or having fun with strippers in a club.
BBC
Although some use this acronym when they want to describe irrational women (Bitches Be Crazy), when it comes to sexual slang, this stands for “Big Black Cock.” We’re talking about massive hogs that take a brave woman to climb and ride. You can check plenty of them out on interracial porn sites.
Spinner
Those of you into petite or tiny women need to know this one because it refers to just that. Combined with a BBC, a spinner porn video leads to jaw-dropping scenes. For instance, the network site Exxxtra Small focuses on the big cocks and petite girls or spinner niches.
PAWG
PAWG or Phatt Ass White Girl is something we can all get behind, right? We’re talking about bubble butts getting oiled, worshipped, sniffed, licked, and fucked. There’s even a whole site on the $0 XVideos Premium Network dedicated to this niche.
BBW
Whether we’re talking about thick, plump, chubby, fat, or buxom babes, they all fall into the BBW category which stands for “Big Beautiful Woman.” Additionally, they can be in the plus-size model territory with slightly large curves, a bit overweight, or a Super-Sized BBW over 250 lbs.
FFM
“Female, Female, Male” is what FFM stands for. It’s a quick and easy way to tell you what to expect in a threesome, or foursome, and group sex.
Bareback
Bareback is the act of engaging in oral, vaginal, or anal intercourse without a condom or rubber. This sexual slang is just as crucial in gay porn as in straight content.
Queening or Face Sitting
During queening or face sitting, a woman will sit on her partner’s face so that oral sex can occur, whether genital or anal (rimming). It can also be part of BDSM play, in which case a female domina uses force to achieve and hold the position. A variation of this is “smothering,” wherein the partner on the bottom gets deprived of air during short periods.
DP
You might think this stands for “Director of Photography,” but you couldn’t be far from the truth. DP means “Double Penetration,” and something you’ll find many top pornstars doing.
Airtight
When you’re trying out DP, you might as well go airtight. This porn phrase means that every orifice of a female performer gets filled during a scene. It could be DP with a blowjob or a combination of toys like butt plugs and fists.
ATM
ATM is porn slang for “Ass to Mouth” and involves going from anal sex to oral, more precisely a blowjob. It’s not for the squeamish, but anything can happen in the heat of the moment.
Spit Roast
You do this during an FMM threesome or if you have a strap-on and two chicks. In its basic form, this involves one person getting sandwiched between two cocks with a blowjob and doggy-style sex.
Titjob
No, no one’s getting their breasts enlarged in a porn scene. This common sexual slang refers to fucking a girl’s tits or titty fucking. It’s best to do it with a pair of big tits; they can be natural or fake. There’s also RTF, or “Reverse Titty Fucking” where you can combine face sitting and rimming or ass licking.
Gonzo Porn
Gonzo porn gained a foothold sometime in the 1990s. Instead of having to sit through the story and poorly delivered lines, the scenes go straight to the sex. Gonzo pioneers include Seymore Butts and Ben Dover.
Facial
The facials we’re discussing don’t have anything to do with beauty products, even though some think this makes your skin look young. A facial is when someone cums all over your face. Facials are a type of money shot wherein the male ejaculates on his partner’s stomach, face, legs, feet, etc.
Bukkake
This sexual slang comes from the land of the rising sun – Japan. Bukkake involves a woman getting facials from three or more men. Often, she sits or goes to her knees before being surrounded by costars who then proceed to pleasure themselves and ejaculate one by one on her face.
We hope we’ve helped clear up some of the most common porn acronyms and sexual slang terms. Enjoy your fap sessions.
Escort Sexual Terms
If you’re tired of watching porn and playing with sex toys, why not treat yourself to an escort? There are numerous reputable sites with escort profiles and customer reviews and little chance of anything going wrong. However, you might wonder what A Level means – or perhaps scratching your head at terms like MSOG or BBBJTCNQNS. If you’re confused, as we were at first, check out this list of common escort service terminology. That way, you’ll know what to look out for and what to expect.
FK
French Kiss. We all know it; most of us love it, and escorts tend to offer it. It often comes with GFE or BFE.
BFE & GFE
It stands for Boyfriend or Girlfriend Experience. You get a more personal and intimate experience with a guy or girl, like being in a relationship. Each escort can be a bit different but expect French kissing, cuddling, hugging, sharing meals, and having conversations. To add, you’ll have a better chance of coming across someone who isn’t a clock watcher.
Clock Watcher
This widespread term is used when an escort appears to be rushing, not enjoying the job, or waiting for the time to run out because they don’t seem to enjoy their work.
COB, CIM, COF, and MSOG
Anyone with a few girlfriends knows that not all women are fans of cumshots, and the same goes for escorts. If you like to mark your territory with flying cum, ensure service is offered. COB, CIM, and COF refer to cum on the body, cum in the mouth, and cum on the face.
MSOG or multiple shots on the goal means you can cum more than once during your session. It is a great skill to have for dudes who blow their first load quickly.
CMT
It stands for a certified massage therapist or, in other words, a professional masseuse. Escorts that offer this service will not only give a killer massage but also give you a happy ending and fuck your brains out if you want.
CBJ
If you see this and don’t like condoms, you might want to look for another girl. This escort slang term represents a blowjob with a rubber or condom.
BBJ
Wanna will her lips and tongue slobbering your rock-hard cock, then see if the call girl offers BBJ or barebacked blowjobs. And while you’re at it, you’ll want to get some BLS.
BLS
If you like a woman who pays attention to details, ask for BLS or ball-licking and sucking. After all, your cock isn’t just about the tip.
BBBJTCNQNS
Now, this is a mouthful when reading and performing it as a service. It stands for a barebacked blowjob to completion, no quit, no spit. No one likes quitters, and if you are parting with hard-earned cash, you might as well see an escort swallow the load after giving you head.
A-Level Escort
This term lets you know that you can bang a chick’s butt. Combine it with ATM and CIM to get the ultimate experience. Luckily, there’s usually no shortage of A-level escorts.
PSE
The pinnacle of escorting for some johns, a porn star experience involves deepthroating, groping, stretching, fast and wild fucking, swallowing, and the like. But, of course, the rougher it gets, the more you’ll pay. And for those that want a genuine porn star, you should either be well-off or ready to dip into your savings account.
Now you’re ready to go out or go online and book yourself a hot girl using these escort sex terms. Tell us if we missed something important, and leave your comments below.
BDSM Sexual Terms
Whether you’ve heard about BDSM through Fifty Shades of Grey or by watching kinky and nasty pornstars, knowing some of the most common BDSM terms will help you discover and better understand this porn category and lifestyle. We prepared the ones you’re most likely to come across and put them into a list, a beginner BDSM guide of sorts. Let’s start with the basics and go from there.
BDSM
BDSM covers bondage, dominance, discipline, submission, sadism, masochism, or any combination thereof. There are dozens of different sub-niches within the BDSM that involve different kinds of roleplaying between two consenting adults. You can find anything from female domination, rope bondage, rubber, and latex outfits to spanking and daddy-play roleplay. If you’re new to it, why not hire a professional to introduce you to this world?
BD
This can either be an acronym for bondage and domination or bondage and discipline, depending on what gets your motor running. BD is specific and involves no infliction of pain during bondage and humiliation roleplay.
Masochism
If experiencing pain turns you on, then you’re a masochist, and you’ll have a lot of fun in the world of BDSM.
Bondage
Bondage is for those who are aroused by being restrained or restraining others. You can also try out solo or self-bondage. Tools and toys of this trade include ropes, collars, tape, handcuffs, and so on.
Breast Bondage
It is a subset of bondage play where special attention is given to a girl’s breasts. They can be wrapped to make them flat or squeezed and made to bulge with rope, sometimes until they turn red or purple. Not for the faint of heart.
Clamping
Another interesting one is that clamping is performed with clips, clamps, clothespins, pegs, or anything that can squeeze and pinch someone’s nipples or skin. Make sure they have natural tits. The combination of being pinched and expecting the implement removed creates sexual pleasure.
Kinbaku
Also known as Japanese bondage or shibari, this play uses ropes to subdue a submissive partner. However, it would be best if you created complex or intricate patterns for this to classify as Kinbaku.
Limits
Watching BDSM videos is one thing, but trying it with someone else is another. That’s why you need to set limits. You’ll discuss and agree on what’s allowed before starting BDSM play. Moreover, using a safe word is suggested to end a session immediately if anyone wants to stop.
Aftercare
Pushing your sexual limits is fine, but you need some aftercare afterward. It involves relaxing and calming each other and talking about what you experienced. Emotions felt during BDSM play can be intense, especially when sadomasochism is engaged.
Kinkster
Kinksters are BDSM enthusiasts who want to participate in or watch BDSM play. As a kinkster, you can have one or a countless number of kinks that you like to indulge in or explore.
Munch
When a kinkster wants to go out and meet like-minded people, he can go to a munch. It is a social gathering of kinksters and a good starting point if you want to take on the BDSM lifestyle.
Femdom
The term femdom has seeped into mainstream porn, I would say. It can refer to a type of BDSM scene or relations in which a woman is a dominant partner.
Pegging
But watch out for those femdoms who are into pegging with a strap-on or dildo unless you like getting your ass penetrated.
Master
No need to go in-depth here. A master is a name used for a dominant male partner.
Bottom
This term is used by gay guys end and in the BDSM scenes. As far as BDSM goes, it refers to a submissive person who is on the receiving end of pegging and the one being restrained or dominated.
Chastity Belt
That is a device that you can wear and which prevents you or anyone from touching and using your private parts. Again, the dominant person, male or female, has the key while the sub wears the belt.
CBT
Short for cock and ball torture, CBT focuses on male genitals for the goal of humiliation, masochism, or sadism. During CBT, a dominant might spank, flog, slap, tickle, or pinch the cock and balls.
Collar
A sub wears a collar, which is a symbol of ownership. Collars usually have metal rings so that a leash can be used. Hello, puppy play!
Brat
If your sub misbehaves and acts up immaturely, you’ve got a brat on your hands. Punishing them is a special treat.
Pain Slut
A pain slut doesn’t have to be submissive, but she must love experiencing lots of pain and aren’t always submissive.
DM
No, it’s not a direct message or dungeon master, it’s the acronym for dungeon monitor. This person chaperones and oversees everything at a BDSM gathering or fetish dungeon.
Dungeon
It is a building, room, or other designated space used for BDSM play. It often has toys and equipment used by professionals for clients or a private session in someone’s home.
Black Sheet Party
If you like BDSM, you’ll love black sheet parties. These are orgies involving many people who like to engage in different types of BDSM play.
24/7
Some people like to spice up their love occasionally, and others live the BDSM lifestyle 24/7. This refers to being in a sub/dom relationship all the time. People also call it a total power exchange or master/slave relationship. Consenting subs hand over the reins and do everything a dominant partner wants.
Fetish
A fetish involves sexual excitement, pleasure, or fixation with a specific object, a certain experience, or type of BDSM play. It
can also be called a kink.
Play
The play covers many different fetish-related activities. Anything physical, mental, or sexual done within a session of BDSM can be thought of as play or a BDSM scene.
Breath Control
This refers to a BDSM session during which the dominant partner has some or full control over a sub’s breathing.
Medical Play
Medical play can involve speculums, latex gloves, insertion of various instruments, uniforms, injections, gags, and restraints – anything related to a hospital setting.
Latex Play
Cleaning and wearing Latex clothing or boots and shoes for sexual arousal is called Latex Play. It often involves a dominant partner in Latex being worshipped or a submissive wearing a mask made of Latex during other BDSM activities.
Animal Play
Simply put, this refers to roleplaying where one participant or more acts as an animal. The most common animal play is puppy play and pony play. The first can involve bowl training, leashes, barking, etc., while a bridle might be used for the latter, or the sub might get straddled like a horse.
Edge Play
It’s not edging, as in prolonging your orgasm, but edge play, pushing limits to the edge of what is deemed safe or consensual by participants in BDSM play. It can involve all sorts of play; it is subjective and should be done with someone you trust.
Age Play
Age play is mostly known as daddy/daughter and mommy/baby play. This roleplaying is based on nurturing between a sub and dominant partner and doesn’t have to have any incestuous connotations.
Gun Play
When you talk about gunplay, it describes sexual arousal from using water, toys, or replica guns in different ways.
Impact Play
A domina or master uses impact play for arousal, excitement, humiliation, or punishment of a sub. The tools of this trade are whips, paddles, floggers, riding crops, canes, whips, and so on.
Bastinado
Bastinado usually happens during impact play and refers to the whipping or canning of a submissive’s s feet, often while they are in bondage and restrained.
Paddling
Paddling also belongs to impact play. The targets for paddling are the butt, breasts, stomach, thighs, and even private parts.
Flogging
Flogging is carried out with a flogger device, most often a simple or a multi-tailed whip, as well as a rod.
Fire Play
Sexual arousal or punishment is achieved with Fire Play by things like matches, candles, and specific BDSM devices and products. As with many types of BDSM play, fire play must be done with caution, consent, and preparation.
Electro Play
Using stun guns, prods, and other devices for electrical stimulation to achieve humiliation, domination, excitement or torture falls under electro-play or electronic stimulation play.
Knife Play
It sounds nasty, but knife play is about using a knifepoint or edge to arouse, excite, or provoke fear in a partner without cutting into the skin. This kind of play requires a trusting relationship.
Golden Shower
A golden shower is an act of urinating on a person with the aim of humiliation or sexual gratification. Golden showers fall under Waters sports or sexual acts involving urine. If pornstars with a pissing fetish get you excited, then EvilAngel.com is the website for you.
Foot Worship
Eroticism and submission intertwine in foot worship. For example, the sub might have to clean, lick, suck, or massage a master or femdom’s feet during foot worship.
Mummification
Mummification might make you chuckle a bit, but it’s restraining a submissive partner by wrapping them up like a mummy and leaving only their head or breathing holes exposed. You can use cling film for this, various plastic, cloth, bandages, etc. Those who indulge in this type of play get excited by being helpless and bound.
As said, these are just some of the most common terms and acronyms in BDSM. Covering them all wouldn’t be practical, but after reading this, even a beginner will have a firm grasp on widely used ones. If you’ve missed something important, please let us know in the comments.
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