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Top 70+: Common Sexual Slangs, Terms & Porn Acronyms (2019)

Top 70+: Common Sexual Slangs, Terms & Porn Acronyms (2019)

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Porn video titles and descriptions can be full of different sexual phrases and acronyms. That’s especially true when it comes to BDSM. If you’re new to porn or haven’t been paying attention, you might be in the dark about what many of the mean. To help you out, we’re going to list and explain some of the most common sexual slang terms and abbreviations.

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Common Sexual Terms

MILF

The term MILF was made popular by teenage comedy film American Pie (1999). It stands for “Mom I’d Like to Fuck” and refers to an attractive older woman that might or might not have kids. Interestingly, in porn, actresses most often fall into the teen or MILF pornstars category with little to no middle ground.

GILF

GILF or “Grandma I’d Like to Fuck” is a natural evolution from the previous term. That is if you’re into grayhaired and wrinkled chicks. GILF porn is quite prevalent and surprisingly popular, but it often involves some pretty hot pornstars by any standards. Anilos.com is an excellent place to start if you into ripe old babes.

Cougar

A cougar or a puma is an older woman (MILF or GILF) that is interested in sexual relations with younger guys. You can also find lesbian cougars and bisexual ones that start threesomes with young or teen couples. You can find plenty of cougars on RealityKings.com site Moms Bang Teens.

CFNM

CFNM stands for “Clothed Female Nude Male.” This term or fetish is often paired up with female domination and teasing. Other times it just a group of CFNM babes jerking off a dude, fucking, or having fun with strippers in a club.

BBC

Although some use this acronym when they want to describe irrational women (Bitches Be Crazy), when it comes to sexual slang, this stands for “Big Black Cock.” We’re talking about massive hogs that take a brave woman to climb and ride. You can check plenty of them out on interracial porn sites.

Spinner

Those of you into petite or tiny women need to know this one because it refers to just that. When combined with a BBC, a spinner porn video leads to some jaw-dropping scenes. For instance, – network site Exxxtra Small focuses on the big cocks and petite girls or spinner niche.

PAWG

PAWG or Phatt Ass White Girl is something we can all get behind, right? We’re talking about bubble butts getting oiled, worshipped, sniffed, licked and fucked. There’s even a whole site on the $0 PornHub Premium Network dedicated to this niche.

BBW

Whether we’re talking about thick, plump, chubby, fat or buxom babes, they all fall into the BBW category which stands for “Big Beautiful Woman.” They can be in plus size model territory with slightly large curves, a bit overweight or a Super Sized BBW over 250 lbs.

FFM

“Female, Female, Male” is what FFM stands for. It’s a quick and easy way to let you know what to expect in a threesome, or foursome and group sex.

Bareback

Bareback is the act of engaging in oral, vaginal, or anal intercourse without a condom or rubber. This sexual slang is just as crucial in gay porn as it is in straight content.

Queening or Face Sitting

During queening or face sitting, a woman will sit on her partner’s face so that oral sex can occur, whether genital or anal (rimming). It can also be part of BDSM play, in which case a female domina uses force to achieve and hold the position. A variation of this is “smothering” wherein the partner on the bottom gets deprived of air during short periods of time.

DP

You might think this stands or “Director of Photography,” but you couldn’t be any farther from the truth. DP means “Double Penetration,” and something you’ll find many top pornstars doing.

Airtight

When you’re trying out DP, you might as well go airtight. This porn phrase simply means that every orifice of a female performer gets filled during a scene. It could be DP with a blowjob or a combination with toys like butt plugs and fists.

ATM

ATM is porn slang for “Ass To Mouth” and involves going from anal sex to oral, more precisely a blowjob. It’s not for the squeamish, but in the heat of the moment, anything can happen.

Spit Roast

This is what you do during an FMM threesome or if you have a strapon and two chicks. In its basic form, this involves one person getting sandwiched between two cocks with a blowjob and doggy style sex.

Titjob

No, no ones getting their breasts enlarged in a porn scene. This common sexual slang refers to fucking a girl’s tits or titty fucking. It’s best to do it with a pair of big tits; they can be natural or fake. There’s also RTF or “Reverse Titty Fucking” in which case you can combine face sitting and rimming or ass licking.

Gonzo Porn

Gonzo porn gained a foothold sometime in the 1990s. Instead of having to sit through the story and badly delivered lines, the scenes go straight to the sex. Gonzo pioneers include Seymore Butts and Ben Dover.

Facial

The facials we’re talking about don’t have anything to do with beauty products, even though some think this makes your skin look young. A facial is when someone cums all over your face. Facials are a type of money shot wherein a male ejaculates on his partner’s stomach, face, legs, feet, etc.

Bukkake

This sexual slang comes from the land of the rising sun – Japan. Bukkake involves a woman getting facials from three or more men. Often times she sits or goes to her knees before being surrounded by costars who then proceed to pleasure themselves and ejaculate one by one on her face.

We hope that we’ve helped clear up some of the most common porn acronyms and sexual slang terms. Enjoy your fap sessions.

Escort Sexual Terms

If you’re tired of watching porn and playing withsex toys, why not treat yourself to an escort? There are numerous reputable sites with escort profiles and customer reviews, and little chance of anything going wrong. However, you might find yourself wondering what does A Level mean. Or perhaps scratching your head at terms like MSOG or BBBJTCNQNS. If you’re confused, as we were at first, check out this list of common escort service terminology. That way you’ll know what to look out for and what to expect.

FK

French Kiss. We all know it, most of us love it and escorts tend to offer it. It often comes with GFE or BFE.

BFE & GFE

This stands for Boyfriend or Girlfriend Experience. In essence, you get more of a personal and intimate experience with a guy or girl that is similar to being in a relationship. Each escort can be a bit different, but expect french kissing, cuddling and hugging, as well as sharing meals, and having conversations. To add, you’ll a better chance of coming across someone who isn’t a clock watcher.

Clock Watcher

This widespread term is used when an escort appears to be rushing,  not enjoying the job, or waiting for the time to run out because they don’t seem to enjoy their work.

COB, CIM, COF, and MSOG

Anyone that’s had a few girlfriends knows that not all women are fans of cumshots, and the same goes for escorts. If you like to mark your territory with flying cum, make sure that service is offered.  COB, CIM, and COF refer to cum on body, cum in mouth, and cum on face.

MSOG or multiple shots on goal mean that you can cum more than once during your session. This is great for dudes that blow their first load quickly.

CMT

This stands for a certified massage therapist or, in other words, a professional masseuse. Escorts that offer this service will not only give a killer massage but also give you a happy ending and fuck your brains out if you want.

CBJ

If you see this and don’t like condoms, then you might want to look for another girl. This escort slang term represents a blowjob with a rubber or condom.

BBJ

Wanna will her lips and tongue slobbering your rock hard cock, then see if call girl offers BBJ or barebacked blowjobs. And while you’re at it you’ll want to get some BLS.

BLS

If you like a woman that pays attention to details, then ask for BLS or ball licking and sucking. After all, your cock isn’t just about the tip.

BBBJTCNQNS

Now, this is a mouthful, both when reading and performing it as service. It stands for a barebacked blowjob to completion, no quit, no spit. No one likes quitters, and if your parting with hard earned cash, you might as well see an escort swallow the load after giving you head.

A-Level Escort

This term lets you know that you can bang a chick’s butt. Combine it with ATM and CIM, to get the ultimate experience. Luckily, there’s usually no shortage of A-level escorts.

PSE

The pinnacle of escorting for some johns, a porn star experience involves deepthroating, groping, stretching, fast and wild fucking, swallowing and the like. Of course, the wilder it gets, the more you’re going to pay. And for those that want a real porn star, you should either be well-off or ready to dip into your savings account.

Now you’re ready to go out or go online and book yourself a hot girl using these escort sex terms. Tell us if we missed something important and leave your comments below.

BDSM Sexual Terms

Whether you’ve heard about BDSM through Fifty Shades of Grey, or by watching kinky and nasty pornstars, knowing some of the most common BDSM terms will help you discover and better understand this porn category and lifestyle. We prepared the ones you’re most likely to come across and put them into a list, a beginner BDSM guide of sorts. Let’s start with the basics and go from there.

BDSM

BDSM covers bondage, dominance, discipline, submission, sadism, and masochism, or any combination thereof. There are dozens of different sub-niches within the BDSM that involve different kinds of roleplaying between two consenting adults. You can find anything from female domination, rope bondage, rubber and latex outfits, to spanking and daddy play roleplay. If you’re new to it, why not hire a professional to introduce you to this world?

BD

This can either be an acronym for bondage and domination or bondage and discipline, depends on what gets your motor running. BD is specific and involves no infliction of pain during bondage and humiliation role-play.

Masochism

If experiencing pain turns you on, then you’re a masochist, and you’ll have a lot of fun in the world of BDSM.

Bondage

Bondage is for those that are aroused by being restrained or restraining others. You can also try out solo or self-bondage. Tools and toys of this trade include ropes, collars, tape, handcuffs, and so on.

Breast Bondage

This is a subset of bondage play where special attention is given to a girl’s breasts. They can be wrapped to make them flat or squeezed and made to bulge with rope, sometimes until they turn red or purple. Not for the faint of heart.

Clamping

Another interesting one, clamping is performed with clips, clamps, clothespins, and pegs, or anything that can squeeze and pinch someone’s nipples or skin. Make sure they have natural tits. The combination of being pinched and the expectation of getting the implement removed creates sexual pleasure.

Kinbaku

Also known as Japanese bondage or shibari, this bondage play uses ropes to subdue a submissive partner. At the same time, complex or intricate patterns are created.

Limits

Watching BDSM videos is one thing, but trying it with someone else is another. That’s why you need to set limits. This means that you’ll discuss and agree on what’s allowed before starting BDSM play. Moreover, the use of a safe word is suggested so that you can end a session immediately if anyone wants to stop.

Aftercare

Pushing your sexual limits is fine, but afterward, you need some aftercare. This involves relaxing and calming each other and talking about what you experienced. Emotions felt during BDSM play can be intense, especially when sado-masochism is involved.

Kinkster

Kinksters are BDSM enthusiasts who either want to partake in or watch BDSM play. As a kinkster, you can have one or a countless number of kinks that you like to indulge or explore.

Munch

When a kinkster wants to go out and meet likeminded people, he can go to a munch. This a social gathering of kinksters and a good starting point if you want to take on the BDSM lifestyle.

Femdom

The term femdom has seeped into mainstream porn I would say. It can refer to a type of BDSM scenes or relations in which a woman is the dominant partner.

Pegging

But watch out for those femdoms who are into pegging with a strap-on or dildo, unless you like getting your ass penetrated.

Master

No need to go in depth here. A master is a name used for a dominant male partner.

Bottom

This term is used by gay guys end and in the BDSM scenes. As far as BDSM goes, it refers to a submissive person who is on the receiving end of pegging as well as the one being restrained or dominated.

Chastity Belt

This is a device which you can wear and which prevents you or anyone from touching and using your private parts. The dominant person, male or female, has the key while the sub wears the belt.

CBT

Short for cock and ball torture, CBT focuses on male genitals for the goal of humiliation, masochism, or sadism. During CBT, a dominant might spank, flog, slap, tickle, or pinch the cock and balls.

Collar

A sub wears a collar which a symbol of ownership. Collars usually have rings made out of metal so that a leash can be used. Hello, puppy play!

Brat

If your sub is misbehaving and acting up immaturely, then you’ve got a brat on your hands. Punishing them is a special treat.

Pain Slut

A pain slut doesn’t have to be submissive, but she has to love experiencing lots of pain, and aren’t always submissive.

DM

No, it’s not a direct message or dungeon master, it’s the acronym for dungeon monitor. This person chaperones and overseas everything at a BDSM gathering or fetish dungeon.

Dungeon

This is what you call a building, room or other designated space used for BDSM play. It often has toys and equipment and is used by professionals for clients or for a private session in someone’s home.

Black Sheet Party

If you like BDSM, you’ll love black sheet parties. These are orgies involving many people who like to engage in different types of BDSM play.

24/7

Some people like to spice up their love from time to time, and others live the BDSM lifestyle 24/7. This refers to being in a sub/dom relationship all the time. People also call it a total power exchange or master/slave relationship. Consenting subs hand over the reigns and do everything a dominant partner wants.

Fetish

A fetish involves sexual excitement, pleasure or fixation with a specific object, a certain experience or type of BDSM play. It can also be called a kink.

Play

Play covers a large number of different fetish-related activities. Anything physical, mental or sexual done within a session of BDSM can be thought of as play or a BDSM scene.

Breath Control

This refers to a BDSM session during which the dominant partner has some or full control over a sub’s breathing.

Medical Play

Medical play can involve speculums, latex gloves, insertion of various instruments, uniforms, injections, gags, and restraints. Basically anything related to a hospital setting.

Latex Play

Cleaning and wearing Latex clothing or boots and shoes for sexual arousal is called Latex Play. It often involves a dominant partner in Latex being worshipped or a submissive wearing a mask made out of latex during other BDSM activities.

Animal Play

Simply put, this refers to role-playing where one participant or more act as an animal. The most common animal play is puppy play and pony play. The first can involve bowl training, leashes, barking etc., while for the later a bridle might be used or the sub might get straddled like a horse.

Edge Play

It’s not edging, as in prolonging your orgasm, but edge play, the act of pushing limits to the edge of what is deemed safe or consensual by participants in BDSM play. It can involve all sorts of play, it is subjective and should be done with someone who you trust.

Age Play

Age play is mostly known as daddy/daughter and mommy/baby play. This role-playing is based on nurturing between a sub and dominant partner and doesn’t have to have any incestuous connotations.

Gun Play

With gun play, sexual arousal is achieved by using water, toy or replica guns in different ways.

Impact Play

Impact play is used by a domina or master for arousal excitement, humiliation, or punishment of a sub. The tools of this trade are whips, paddles, floggers, riding crops, canes, whips, and so on.

Bastinado

Bastinado usually happens during impact play and refers to the whipping or canning of a submissive’s feet, often while he or she is in bondage and restrained.

Paddling

Paddling also belongs to impact play. The targets for paddling are the butt, breasts, stomach, thighs and even private parts.

Flogging

Flogging is carried out with a flogger device, most often a simple or a multi-tailed whip, as well as a rod.

Fire Play

Sexual arousal and/or punishment is achieved with Fire Play by things like matches, candles, and specific BDSM devices and products. As with many types of bdsm play, fire play must be done with caution, consent, and preparation.

Electro Play

Using stun guns, prods, and other devices for electrical stimulation to achieve humiliation, domination, excitement or torture falls under electro play or electronic stimulation play.

Knife Play

It sounds nasty, but knife play is about using a knife point or edge to arouse, excite, or provoke fear in a partner without cutting into the skin. This kind of play requires a trusting relationship.

Golden Shower

A golden shower is the act of urinating on a person with the aim of humiliation or sexual gratification. Golden showers faIl under Waters sports or sexual acts involving urine. If pornstars with a pissing fetish get you excited, then EvilAngel.com is the website for you.

Foot Worship

Eroticism and submission intertwine in foot worship. The sub might have to clean, lick, suck or massage a master or femdom’s feet during foot worship.

Mummification

Mummification might make you chuckle a bit, but it’s the act of restraining a submissive partner by wrapping them up like a mummy and leaving only their head or breathing holes exposed. You can use cling film for this, various plastic, cloth, bandages, etc. Those who indulge in this type of play get excited by being helpless and bound.

As said, these just some of the most common terms and acronyms in BDSM. To cover them all wouldn’t be practical, but after reading this, even a total beginner will have a firm grasp on widely used ones. If you think we’ve missed something important, please let us know in the comments.

Written by George Best

Long-time porn critic and adult scene enthusiast, George has more than a decade of first-hand experience. With close to 500 movie reviews, he now shares his porn knowledge for best pornstars and trustworthy porn sites.

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